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Глава 5. Создайте круг единомышленников

1. «Я вырос в системе меритократии…» – Эрик Валь, интервью автору в 2016 году. Я познакомился с ним на конференции «Vistage» и был покорен эмоциональной силой его выступления на сцене.

2. Родители играют важнейшую роль… – Мало кто в жизни так важен, как родители, в формировании убеждений, личных качеств и стремлений, а следовательно, и будущего. На эту тему проведено бесчисленное количество исследований, но начните с этого: E. Mavis Hetherington, Martha Cox, and Roger Cox, “Effects of Divorce on Parents and Children,” in Nontraditional Families: Parenting and Child Development, ed. Michael E. Lamb (Hillsdale, NJ: Erlbaum, 1982); Joan Kaufman and Edward Zigler, “Do Abused Children Become Abusive Parents?” American.Journal of Orthopsychiatry 57, no. 2 (1987): 186–92; ALSPAC Study Team, “ALSPAC – the Avon Longitudinal Study of Parents and Children,” Paediatric and Perinatal Epidemiology 15, no. 1 (2001): 74–87; Kathleen V. Hoover-Dempsey and Howard M. Sandler, “Parental Involvement in Children’s Education: Why Does It Make a Difference?” Teachers College Record 97, no. 2 (1995): 310–31; Gillian Pugh, Erica De’Ath, and Celia Smith, Confident Parents, Confident Children: Policy and Practice in Parent Education and Support (Washington, DC: National Children’s Bureau, 1994); Concha Delgado-Gaitan, Literacy for Empowerment: Te Role of Parents in Children’s Education (London: Routledge, 1990); Sylvia Palmer and Larry Cochran, “Parents as Agents of Career Development,” Journal of Counseling Psychology 35, no. 1 (1988): 71; Ashton D. Trice and Linda Knapp, “Relationship of Children’s Career Aspirations to Parents’ Occupations,” Journal of Genetic Psychology 153, no. 3 (1992): 355–57; Richard A. Young and John D. Friesen, “The Intentions of Parents in Influencing the Career Development of Their Children,” Career Development Quarterly 40, no. 3 (1992): 198–206; and Ramona Paloş and Loredana Drobot, “The Impact of Family Influence on the Career Choice of Adolescents,” Procedia – Social and Behavioral Sciences 2, no. 2 (2010): 3407–11.

3. «Для моих родных, друзей…» – Роберт Земекис, интервью, опубликованное Academy of Achievement: A Museum of Living History, June 29, 1996.

4. Оно оказывает влияние на наши достижения… – Jill Antonishak, Erin L. Sutfin, and N. Dickon Reppucci, “Community Influence on Adolescent Development,” in Handbook of Adolescent Behavioral Problems: Evidence-Based Approaches to Prevention and Treatment, ed. Tomas P. Gullotta and Gerald R. Adams (Boston: Springer, 2005); Cristina L. Reitz-Krueger et al., “Community Influence on Adolescent Development,” in Handbook of Adolescent Behavioral Problems: Evidence-Based Approaches to Prevention and Treatment, ed. Tomas P. Gullotta, Robert W. Plant, and Melanie A. Evans (Boston: Springer, 2015); Margo Gardner and Laurence Steinberg, “Peer Influence on Risk Taking, Risk Preference, and Risky Decision Making in Adolescence and Adulthood: An Experimental Study,” Developmental Psychology 41, no. 4 (2005): 625; Jeanne Brooks-Gunn et al., “Do Neighborhoods Influence Child and Adolescent Development?” American Journal of Sociology 99, no. 2 (1993): 353–95; Tamara F. Mangleburg, Patricia M. Doney, and Terry Bristol, “Shopping with Friends and Teens’ Susceptibility to Peer Influence,” Journal of Retailing 80, no. 2 (2004): 101–16; Karl E. Bauman and Susan T. Ennett, “On the Importance of Peer Influence for Adolescent Drug Use: Commonly Neglected Considerations,” Addiction 91, no. 2 (1996): 185–98; Jason Chein et al., “Peers Increase Adolescent Risk Taking by Enhancing Activity in the Brain’s Reward Circuitry,” Developmental Science 14, no. 2 (2011): F1–F10.

5. Однако давление со стороны общественности не заканчивается вместе с юностью – Laurence Steinberg and Kathryn C. Monahan, “Age Differences in Resistance to Peer Influence,” Developmental Psychology 43, no. 6 (2007): 1531; Gardner and Steinberg, “Peer Influence on Risk Taking.”

6. «В Миддлтоне все только и говорили, что об усердной работе…» – J. D. Vance, Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis (New York: HarperCollins, 2016).