Many of us have experienced odd coincidences we can’t explain. Some believe this is the work of God, or perhaps the cosmic wisdom of the universe. Mathematicians Persi Diaconis and Frederick Mosteller took a more scientific approach, defining coincidence as “a surprising concurrence of events, perceived as meaningfully related, with no apparent causal connection.”1 They explain in their 1989 research article “Methods For Studying Coincidences” that given the large number of humans on the planet, “with a large enough sample, any outrageous thing is likely to happen.” More importantly, humans are not able to fully, mathematically appreciate what is truly unlikely. What we feel is a coincidence is rooted in our own personal belief systems. We are more interested in coincidences that have to do with us, rather than other people. In the
People can be pretty liberal with what they consider coincidences. If you meet someone who shares your birthday, that seems like a fun coincidence, but you might feel the same way if you met someone who shared your mother’s birthday, or your best friend’s. Or if it was the day right before or after yours. So, there are several birthdays that a person could have that would feel coincidental.2
People who describe themselves as religious tend to believe more in coincidences.
Again, the observation of coincidences are in a way, egotistical, as Beck explains that research proves it reflects more on the person experiencing the coincidence than the actual mathematical likelihood:
Research has found that certain personality traits are linked to experiencing more coincidences—people who describe themselves as religious or spiritual, people who are self-referential (or likely to relate information from the external world back to themselves), and people who are high in meaning-seeking are all coincidence-prone. People are also likely to see coincidences when they are extremely sad, angry, or anxious.
In a strange coincidence, nurse Violet Jessup lived through three shipwrecks! She was a passenger on the RMS
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What is a fortunate coincidence (if we do say so ourselves!), is that we had the great honor of interviewing Richard Chizmar, coauthor of