What is much more likely is that the author of 1 Timothy, based on his reading of 1 Corinthians 11, is repeating and expanding Paul’s advice. He specifically mentions that women should not braid their hair or wear provocative attire, and that their learning in silence also prohibits them from
This passage, like Paul’s statement in 1 Corinthians that “in the Lord”
How, then, does Paul’s view that there is no longer “male nor female” for those baptized into Christ fit with his insistence that the old order of the physical creation, with its male and female roles, be respected and maintained? To answer that question we need to look at his earlier discussion, also in 1 Corinthians, about marriage and celibacy. If there is no longer male or female in Christ, then how are people to live with one another when sexual differences and desires, not to mention married and unmarried states of life, are an ever-present reality that
Paul’s advice to the Corinthians on sex and marriage is about as complex and as convoluted as anything he ever wrote, but packed into the single chapter of 1 Corinthians 7, it is the key to understanding the dilemma he and his followers faced. The topic comes up because the Corinthians have written him a letter, apparently quoting back to him a teaching he had given them: “It is good for a man not to touch a woman” (verse 1).
Paul sticks by that general principle while at the same time allowing variation. He clearly would prefer that his followers live a nonsexual life, and cites his own choice of celibacy as an example—“as one who, by the Lord’s mercy, is faithful” (verses 7–8, 25). He advises those who are single or widowed, unless they are “aflame with passion,” to remain single and celibate (verses 8–9). Marriage is not the ideal, or even the best choice, but is preferable over sexual immorality for those who lack the “gift” to live the nonsexual life (verse 9).
If a couple is engaged, it is better not to marry if they have their sexual desires under control (verses 36–37). If a man and woman are already married, they are not to divorce, except in the case where an “unbeliever” refuses to stay with a Christian partner (verses 12–16). If both are Christians the marriage cannot be broken, though a temporary separation is allowed, either when there are problems or in the case of one or the other wanting to withdraw temporarily to experience the nonsexual life for spiritual reasons (verses 5, 10–12). Several times Paul emphasizes that he is not commanding or requiring celibacy, and just as many times he goes on to say it is nonetheless the better choice.
To support his contention that the nonsexual life is preferable, Paul stresses that people are living in an acute apocalyptic situation. He refers to