Alice in Chains: The Untold Story

According to Hauser, they started thinking about names. “The conversation kind of fluttered a little bit, and I go, ‘What do you guys think about instead of Alice ’N Chains, Alice in Chains?’” At the time, there was an Alice ’N Chains banner furled against the back wall—presumably a remnant of Layne’s previous incarnation of the band. Hauser unfurled the banner, paintbrush in hand, and added an i to the name, which now read ALICE IN CHAINS, and showed it to the band. “Within seconds, everybody was on board. It was that easy.”

Mike told Mark Yarm that it was his idea to put the i back in, so it wouldn’t sound like Guns n’ Roses. Layne contacted his former bandmates and asked for permission to use the name. Nick Pollock recalled not being particularly thrilled about it at the time and thinking that he should come up with a different name, but ultimately both he and James Bergstrom gave Layne their blessing to use the name.10

They played their first show as Alice in Chains some time later. Tim Branom has evidence that the name change happened that summer. On July 14, Diamond Lie and Branom’s band Gypsy Rose were on the same bill, opening for the band Helix. It was the first time the two bands had met since Jerry and Mike had been dismissed from Gypsy Rose almost a year earlier.

On his blog, Branom later wrote, “In anticipation of the show, some band members thought a band feud could spark controversy and therefore bring even more people to the show by generating more publicity. Unfortunately, the issues were too close at hand, and the feud was a bit too real. The show was a tremendous success, but both bands watched closely to see how the ex–band members and replacements were doing. Gypsy Rose created more outrageous stage antics and thought they had left their mark on Seattle. But Diamond Lie had record-label representatives wanting to sign them, and it escalated their career. Diamond Lie would now be called Alice in Chains for their next show, eleven days later.” He added, “The bitterness of record labels passing on Gypsy Rose would only add fuel to the fire created by drug abuse and jealousy of Alice in Chains’s sudden success. The attitude was ‘How could two guys that used to be in our band do better than us?’” If Branom’s account is correct, that means Diamond Lie played their first show as Alice in Chains on July 25, 1988.11

Besides committing to Alice in Chains full-time and being in a band that was beginning to make a name for itself, Layne had another significant event take place that spring: meeting Demri Parrott.

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Demri Lara Parrott—she pronounced her surname Puh-row, not like the exotic bird—was born February 22, 1969, to Steven Parrott and Kathleen Austin, who were twenty-two and nineteen years old at the time and had met through mutual friends. Austin originally planned to name her Erin Lynn Austin, but after she and Parrott got married, the name changed. Her husband didn’t like the name Erin, but he did like Lara. Austin thought she had heard the name Demery somewhere and suggested it. He asked her to write it down, and she spelled it Demri, adding Lara next to it. Parrott liked it, and when Demri was born the next day, the name stuck.

Years later, Demri would jokingly tell people that when her mother was in labor, the doctors had given her a shot of Demerol for the pain and she liked it so much, she named her daughter after it. Demri didn’t like her name at first, because people would mispronounce or mishear it. At the age of two, she had a strong enough sense of self to tell people her name and how to spell it.

Demri could communicate and socialize beyond her years. As a three-year-old, Demri was tested by experts at the University of Washington, who told her parents she had the vocabulary of a high school senior, but her exceptional language skills weren’t always well received by adults or other children. When she was two, her grandmother had made her an angel costume for Halloween with a gold halo that went above her head. Kathleen Austin and her mother were taking Demri to her great-grandmother’s house so she could see Demri in her costume. During the car ride, Demri was tugging at the halo.

“Demri, you’re going to mess up your hair, honey,” her grandmother told her.

“But, Grandma, the goddamn halo won’t stay up.”

Demri’s grandmother almost drove the car off the road.

Demri’s parents’ marriage did not last long. Austin later married a Child Protective Services caseworker and gave birth to their son, Devin Remme, on June 20, 1974. That marriage ended in 1976, and Austin would later marry Dennis Murphy, with whom she would have two children: Derek Murphy, born November 15, 1980, and David Murphy, born on June 12, 1982. According to her mother, Demri was closest to Devin and Derek—the oldest two of her siblings. Like Layne, Demri used her stepfather’s surname—going by Demri Murphy—while growing up but never legally changed her birth name.